We seek out situations, jobs, and people that affirm our intelligence, perceptions, and self-worth, and, we avoid situations or people who are hurtful, harmful, or demeaning to us.
This step helps us set intentions, and, it helps us discern. It helps us discern who is harmful, hurtful, etc., and whether we can actually stay the course and make change within a hurtful relationship, job, or situation. And. If we can avoid the harmful, hurtful, demeaning people and situations, DO IT.
Seek out the people who are going to affirm us and the gifts that we do have!